You may or may not overthink how to style your pillows. It can seem a bit overwhelming so I wanted to break down the easiest ways.
Father’s Day Gift Guide
My first round of gift guides for Father’s Day is for the Smoker/Griller. I am sharing some of Blake’s favorite picks that he uses all the time on the Big Green Egg.
His Space, Her Space, or Our Space
This may sound silly to you, but one of the biggest struggles we had as a married couple was making my space, our space. Everyone has their own design aesthetic. That is exacerbated if you move in with a significant other who is used to having a “bachelor pad” style.
Blake initially moved into my apartment when we were first married. He definitely fell into the bucket of “bachelor pad” aesthetic. Needless to say that definitely isn’t my jam. However, I have always felt it is really important for those in your space, to feel comfortable in your space. If this space was now our space, I remember thinking I need to figure out how to make this work for both of us.
Here are a few best ideas:
Favorite Color:
- Incorporate it in at least two of your common spaces.
- If you are designing for your significant other make one of the rooms the Master Bedroom.
- If it is not a color you like, it can be one of the colors in a fabric you select or be incorporated in through a decor item.
- Figure out how to weave this color into the room in some way.
Man Cave/Office
- Do they have a space of their own?
- If they do let’s really put some effort into this space
- Do they have diploma’s, memorabilia, anything that can make this space unique to them?
- Start working on a way to not make the space a shrine, but give it a touch of his/her personality
- A good example of this is if they like golf, get a cool signed golf poster and put it in a nice frame.
- Monogram a leather desk calendar: The goal here is personalization of the space
- If it’s a man’s office I like to get leather bound books and create some darker tones or points of interest
Find out where they like to sit.
- Do they prefer to sit in a chair or a sofa?
- Put some guard rails up here. Pick out a few chairs that you like and tell them this will be “their chair”, if they want to sit in it, let them pick out the most comfortable one.
Bonus Room
- What do you both want out of this space?
- If they want to put up posters try to frame them in your aesthetic style
- Lighted Signs: There is a way to do this without killing your style, make sure the colors vibe with your aesthetic
- If you are putting up a lighted sign you can compromise on which one
- Incorporate Technology: Let him/her own this process and what it is
- ex. I compromised and let Blake install a surround sound system that he controls (I still benefit from it, but it’s something that he owns in the space)
My biggest takeaways to make it our space:
- Let them have ownership over something: ie. Technology
- Ask them for a few items they would really like to incorporate into the space
- Weave their color into the space
XOXO, Katie
Beginner’s Guide to Creating Beautiful Flower Arrangements
My mom has always been known as the queen of flower arrangements. She makes sure if she is having a party there is a beautiful arrangement in every room. Also if someone is coming to visit there is definitely a small nosegay by the bed.
Flowers immediately elevate any event, mood, or decor. Since they have such a level of importance shouldn’t we all know how to quickly throw together an arrangement?
I’ve put together my top things to focus on how to build a beautiful arrangement.
Flower Arrangements How To:
- Get a “Frog”: These will stabilize the arrangement. These are really important if you are doing larger arrangements, they will help the flowers stay in place. Go ahead and place at the bottom of the “vase”.
2. Fill the Vase with water and add a splash of bleach (this will keep the water clean)
3. I like to soak my flowers for a while in room temperature water, at least 30 minutes
3. Cut each flowers stem at an angle and remove the leaves from the stem. (this will allow the flower to drink and will get all the water to focus on the flower instead of the leaves)
4. Start building your arrangement with the heavier flowers first (those with the wider stems)
5. Place those into the Frogs, one heavier flower on each side of the arrangement, opposite each other, and then in the middle. (Technically you would need a minimum of 5 heavier flowers. ie. hydrangeas) That is also all relative depending on the other types of flowers you are using.
3. Layer in the flowers
4. Use greenery to fill in the gaps
That’s high level, all that’s to it, just always make sure you are selecting a variety of flowers that obviously go together color wise.
XOXO, Katie
What Household Items Should you be Tossing & When?
One of my friends recently shared with me that you should be replacing your underwear every year. Let me just stop right there because I definitely was not doing that. If you really think about it though, it makes sense. This got me thinking, what other personal and household items should we be throwing out?
If you know me, you know that whenever I learn anything new I immediately have to research and deep dive to make sure I have all the facts. This completely opened Pandora’s Box for me. I took it to another level to find out what other household items we should be replacing and when. If I didn’t know about the underwear, chances are I have been missing a lot.
Household Items to Toss & When:
Make-up:
All Make-up should have expiration dates now included on the packaging, those are a rule of thumb, and if you have any that are over that date TOSS THEM. Those timelines also aren’t taking into consideration the bacteria build-up. GROSS.
- Liquid: Any of your liquid make-ups can get a build up of bacteria especially Mascara, Eyeliner, and Concealer. Anything that touches your face & then goes back into the bottle has a 3 month rule.
- Powder: Two years is the general rule of thumb here. Your make-up brush touches your face and then goes onto your powder. If you aren’t regularly cleaning your make-up brushes I would recommend getting rid of your powder a lot sooner.
- Make-up Brushes: These can generally last as long as you are regularly cleaning them. If you start to see they are fraying get rid of them, especially if they aren’t made of natural fibers.
Favorite Make-up Brush Cleaners:
Toothbrush:
Toss this one every three months, if you are a tough brusher, watch for the ends to be frayed, this means you are probably taking in toxic particles and bacteria each time you brush. Kind of defeats the purpose of even brushing your teeth.
Sheets:
Every two-three years you should be replacing these, but make sure you are sanitizing these when you wash them. They can definitely house a lot of bacteria given how much time we spend on them and especially if you have dogs.
Pillows:
Every two years, and PLEASE for the love of it all wash these things on the regular. If you don’t know how trust Martha and check out her DIY on pillow cleaning.
If you don’t have one, the My Pillow is AMAZE:
Bath Mats:
You need to be washing these once a week, and the general rule of thumb would be around 2 years, but if you aren’t washing it, TOSS IT. Think about all the bacteria you are carrying with you when you step on the mat before getting in shower. Then you step on it wet to get out and the bacteria just builds from there. They really need to be hung up after use to dry and they should last longer.
Towels:
Two years for sure, maybe even sooner. Make sure you are hanging these up after each use so they don’t bread mold, but definitely wash these every few days.
Underwear:
Replace every 6-12 months, if there are stains toss them. These guys are literally the worst to keep around, especially if you are susceptible to bacterial infections. That’s all I am going to say on the subject.
Spices:
This is a BIG one. It is a huge misnomer that spices don’t expire. You really should be getting rid of them every year or two. In fact, spices can produce salmonella at twice the normal rate, and can be a breeding ground for bacteria. Especially the common spices such as basil, oregano, dill, etc. If you don’t believe me, google FDA AND Spice AND Salmonella.
Kitchen Sponge/Brush:
Replace these every two-four weeks. If you want it to last longer toss it in the dish washer, but once it starts getting frayed get rid of it.
Air Filters:
This effects the quality of your air, so please replace these at least every 3 months. If you have pets, sanding, painting, or anything that can cause a temporary poor air quality go ahead and change the filters. You don’t want to breathe in those toxins regularly.
I hope this is helpful!
XOXO, Katie
Tips & Tricks to a Clean Closet
If you think about it, your closet is really the foundational start to every single day. If you start your day in chaos, then couldn’t that potentially seep into the rest of your day? For me, starting the day, with a clean closet, and knowing where all my stuff is, gets me going in the right direction. There is nothing more frustrating than running around looking for something.
Everything has a place in my closet, and now that I have it set-up correctly, it stays that way.
Prior to organizing my closet, the biggest challenge was the act of simply hanging up clothes, walking them all the way to the laundry room, or putting up shoes. This probably sounds familiar because these are easy patterns to fall into. Especially when we were on the go constantly before Covid.
I truly believe keeping a clean and organized closet is a mindset, and can be made easier by repetitive actions and behaviors. Here are some tips and tricks to a clean closet that I have used.
Steps to a Clean and Organized Closet
- Organize your hanging closet into sections
- Tops, pants, skirts, dresses, jackets
- Rainbow each section
- Just do it, it will be the most satisfying thing you have ever done-well maybe not ever, but trust me it’s worth it
- Rainbow tip: ROYGBIV (remember this from elementary school?) Use it to color code to the rainbow.
- For your Folding Section of sweaters, sweatshirts, shirts use these separators:
4. Organize your shoes using these boxes:
5. Keep a Laundry Basket in your closet or near your closet:
6. Hang up your clothes every time you take them off, don’t let yourself pull out an excuse.
Mother’s Day Gift Guide
Looking for something for mom? Complete Mother’s Day Gift Guide that includes something for everyone. I rounded up some great items across several of my favorite retailers. Everything from travel accessories, home decor, and beauty products.
What to Plant in Spring
Early spring is really when you want to start thinking about what you want to plant in your yard. What it really comes down to is what colors pallet or look you are you going for. I usually get excited because seeing flowers pop up because it feels like a fresh start and gives me excitement for what’s to come. While year to year I plant a lot of the same flowers they never seem to look the same.
The main reason is because I love a mixture of perennials and annuals because with perennials you know what’s coming and annuals give everything a different look. If you don’t know perennials tend to come back every year, while annuals, depending on your growing zone, do not come back.
My yard is a mixture of potted plants, flower beds and baskets. I have certain go to plants for each of these that I wanted to share with you guys for some inspiration on where to get started.
Flower Baskets
- Dusty Miller:
- Easy to grow and keep year after year in Zone 7
- Flower in the Summer
- Petunia’s:
- Switch them out year after year for different colors
- Cascade out of baskets
- Sweet Potato Vine:
- Cascade out of your basket
- Beautiful varieties of green and purple (awesome contrast against each other)
- Hyacinth Bean Vine:
- These climb up the chain, disguising it
- Flower all summer & turn into a seed to use for the next year
Potted Plants
- Begonia:
- There are so many varieties, but these are annuals unless you bring them inside
- Sweet potato vine:
- Awesome selection to have something cascading out of your pot
- Jade Plant:
- These are beautiful and if you bring them inside every winter you can actually grow a pretty large tree
- Veronica Plant:
- Can put this in a pot or yard
- Adds height to the pot and a splash of color
- Mint:
- Great to have for drinks and cooking
- Easier to contain in a pot the plant can be very aggressive
- Smells amazing
- Basil:
- Easy to pick and eat if potted
- Let it flower at the end of the season and pick the seed pods to plant for next year
Yard
- Roses:
- Bloom all summer
- Great for cutting and Flower Arrangements
- Smell Amazing
- Gardenia
- Bloom all summer
- Smell Amazing
- Wax Leaf Privet
- Fast Grower
- Will make a great privacy wall
- Flower and have berries
- Wax Myrtle
- Super Fast Grower
- Leaves are evergreen
- Leaves Smell Amazing
- Great for Arrangement Fillers
- Tea Olive
- Fast Grower
- Smells Amazing in Spring when blooming
- Clematis
- Beautiful Flower for Trellis
- Cleome
- Beautiful Flowers
- Hydrangea:
- Easy to Cut for Arrangements
- Beautiful in the garden
- Comes in Bush, tree, or Climber
- Butterfly Bush
- Attracts Beautiful Butterflies & has wonderful flowers all summer
Easter Brunch Table Decor
Here is your Easter tablescape idea for a casual brunch here. I love cabbage plates right now, and am obsessed with this potential Mimosa set!
Anthropologie always has some of my favorite plates/mugs. Mainly because they tend to be unique and a little funky. This makes them the perfect picks for casual occasions.
Also, check out the Hurricane Glass over the candles, my fave for a dinner table!
Easy DIY Ivy Topiary
5 Years ago I made my own Ivy Topiary and it’s still thriving on my front porch. It’s low maintenance, and these can retail anywhere from $400-700 a piece. Crazy!
Ivy grows quickly, so you should have your topiary in no time!
Shopping List:
Obelisk Garden Trellis
- 3-5 Ft in height
Large Outdoor Planter
3-5 Bags of potting soil
- The amount will depend on the size of the planter. It is ok to get extra, the potting soil will settle and you will need to add more over time.
4 Ivy plants
- I am including English Ivy and a Variegated (2 tone) variety
Plant Tape
Directions:
Step 1:
- Fill the pot with the potting soil and water the soil to compact it down. Add additional potting mix if needed.
Step 2:
- Put the Garden Obelisk in the planter and secure in the dirt
Step 3:
- Plant the Ivy near the 4 corners of the Garden Obelisk
Step 4:
- Secure the Ivy onto the Garden Obelisk using the plant tape
Ivy Topiary Project Complete! XOXO Katie
